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		<title>By: Donna Holmberg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Donna Holmberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 08:46:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My little brother drowned just after he turned 7. I was nearly 11 at the time, and I remember how hard it was to live with the loss and cope with the empty spot he left in all of our lives. Someone share a special poem with us after he died that we found comfort in. Please share it with Shellie in hopes that one day it may provide just a tiny amount of comfort to her in coping with her loss.

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I&#039;ll Lend You For A Little Time A Child
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I&#039;ll lend you for a little time a child of mine.&quot;He said.
&quot;For you to love while he lives,
And mourn for when he is dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty two or three.
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?
He&#039;ll bring his charms to gladden you,
And shall his stay be brief,
You&#039;ll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay, 
since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there,
I want this child to learn.
I&#039;ve looked the wide world over,
In search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life&#039;s lane,
I have selected you.
Now you will give him all your love,
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call, to take him back again?

I fancied that I heard them say:
&quot;Dear Lord, Thy will be done.&quot;
For all the joy thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we&#039;ll run.
We&#039;ll shelter him with tenderness, 
we&#039;ll love him while we may,
And for happiness we&#039;ve known,
Forever grateful stay;
We&#039;ll brave the bitter grief that comes,
And try to understand.

--By Edgar Guest
.-= Donna Holmberg&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/one6ylady/statuses/6722579737&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;one6ylady: RT @anyluckyday: RT @anyluckyday Blend Creations Modern Jewelry &#124; AnyLuckyDay http://bit.ly/8Cu3iE&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My little brother drowned just after he turned 7. I was nearly 11 at the time, and I remember how hard it was to live with the loss and cope with the empty spot he left in all of our lives. Someone share a special poem with us after he died that we found comfort in. Please share it with Shellie in hopes that one day it may provide just a tiny amount of comfort to her in coping with her loss.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
I&#8217;ll Lend You For A Little Time A Child<br />
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<p>I&#8217;ll lend you for a little time a child of mine.&#8221;He said.<br />
&#8220;For you to love while he lives,<br />
And mourn for when he is dead.<br />
It may be six or seven years, or twenty two or three.<br />
But will you, till I call him back,<br />
Take care of him for Me?<br />
He&#8217;ll bring his charms to gladden you,<br />
And shall his stay be brief,<br />
You&#8217;ll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.</p>
<p>I cannot promise he will stay,<br />
since all from earth return,<br />
But there are lessons taught down there,<br />
I want this child to learn.<br />
I&#8217;ve looked the wide world over,<br />
In search for teachers true,<br />
And from the throngs that crowd life&#8217;s lane,<br />
I have selected you.<br />
Now you will give him all your love,<br />
Nor think the labor vain,<br />
Nor hate me when I come to call, to take him back again?</p>
<p>I fancied that I heard them say:<br />
&#8220;Dear Lord, Thy will be done.&#8221;<br />
For all the joy thy child shall bring,<br />
The risk of grief we&#8217;ll run.<br />
We&#8217;ll shelter him with tenderness,<br />
we&#8217;ll love him while we may,<br />
And for happiness we&#8217;ve known,<br />
Forever grateful stay;<br />
We&#8217;ll brave the bitter grief that comes,<br />
And try to understand.</p>
<p>&#8211;By Edgar Guest<br />
<span class="cluv"> Donna Holmberg&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://twitter.com/one6ylady/statuses/6722579737" rel="nofollow">one6ylady: RT @anyluckyday: RT @anyluckyday Blend Creations Modern Jewelry | AnyLuckyDay </a><a href="http://bit.ly/8Cu3iE" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/8Cu3iE</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theohanamama.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: NanaTutu</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18710</link>
		<dc:creator>NanaTutu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 06:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We are all bound together as Moms.. and blessedly grandmom.... we are not supposed to outlive our children, and especially one so young.  All of our hearts ache together with Shellie (even though we may have never met, we all share being a mother) this type of loss is devastating.  Your poem Sarah is a beautiful gift and tribute to your own children but also a lovely tribute to Shellie and her son Bryson.  It sums it all up - you cannot love and nurture and care for a child 24 hours a day, 7 days a week,  the loss is inconceiveable.   It takes almost a year of growth in the womb and then hours giving birth and it never ceases to amaze me how quickly, almost instantly, a life can be taken.    My heart also aches for this family - and at a holiday season too. May Shellie and her family find their peace and may God wrap them in His Robe and let them know Bryson will forever live in their hearts and in the memories of so many many other Mothers.    They will be in my prayers.    Hug your babes and kiss them daily, multiple times daily no matter how much they fuss.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are all bound together as Moms.. and blessedly grandmom&#8230;. we are not supposed to outlive our children, and especially one so young.  All of our hearts ache together with Shellie (even though we may have never met, we all share being a mother) this type of loss is devastating.  Your poem Sarah is a beautiful gift and tribute to your own children but also a lovely tribute to Shellie and her son Bryson.  It sums it all up &#8211; you cannot love and nurture and care for a child 24 hours a day, 7 days a week,  the loss is inconceiveable.   It takes almost a year of growth in the womb and then hours giving birth and it never ceases to amaze me how quickly, almost instantly, a life can be taken.    My heart also aches for this family &#8211; and at a holiday season too. May Shellie and her family find their peace and may God wrap them in His Robe and let them know Bryson will forever live in their hearts and in the memories of so many many other Mothers.    They will be in my prayers.    Hug your babes and kiss them daily, multiple times daily no matter how much they fuss.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim @ What's That Smell?</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18687</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim @ What's That Smell?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 20:34:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful poem Sarah!  (the pee outside part cracked me up...thank you for the laugh, they&#039;ve been few lately)

I am so heartbroken for Shellie and her family.
.-= Kim @ What&#039;s That Smell?&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://accidentalmommies.com/a-parents-worst-nightmare/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A parent’s worst nightmare…&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful poem Sarah!  (the pee outside part cracked me up&#8230;thank you for the laugh, they&#8217;ve been few lately)</p>
<p>I am so heartbroken for Shellie and her family.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kim @ What&#8217;s That Smell?&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://accidentalmommies.com/a-parents-worst-nightmare/" rel="nofollow">A parent’s worst nightmare…</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theohanamama.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: zsera</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18686</link>
		<dc:creator>zsera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 20:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is just awful. Her family will be in my prayers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is just awful. Her family will be in my prayers.</p>
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		<title>By: trisha</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18685</link>
		<dc:creator>trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 19:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>beautiful sarah. She would probably be proud to read that gorgeous poem.
.-= trisha&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.momdot.com/update-on-shellie&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Update on Shellie.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>beautiful sarah. She would probably be proud to read that gorgeous poem.<br />
<span class="cluv"> trisha&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.momdot.com/update-on-shellie" rel="nofollow">Update on Shellie.</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theohanamama.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: erin</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18682</link>
		<dc:creator>erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful poem. Just hug and kiss your little ones every day! Let them know how much you love them. This is just so sad for Shellie.
.-= erin&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://themombuzz.com/2009/12/15/my-natural-toy-good-earth-fairy/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My Natural Toy: Good Earth Fairy&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful poem. Just hug and kiss your little ones every day! Let them know how much you love them. This is just so sad for Shellie.<br />
<span class="cluv"> erin&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://themombuzz.com/2009/12/15/my-natural-toy-good-earth-fairy/" rel="nofollow">My Natural Toy: Good Earth Fairy</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theohanamama.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful. I keep hugging and kissing my little boys. I&#039;ve even peeked in on my little guy as he naps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful. I keep hugging and kissing my little boys. I&#8217;ve even peeked in on my little guy as he naps.</p>
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		<title>By: Stacia</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18678</link>
		<dc:creator>Stacia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:38:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is just heartbreaking. I am so sorry for her loss and I am thinking of her family. I do not know this mother either, but can not fathom what she is going through right now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is just heartbreaking. I am so sorry for her loss and I am thinking of her family. I do not know this mother either, but can not fathom what she is going through right now.</p>
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		<title>By: LisaLisa</title>
		<link>http://theohanamama.com/2009/12/reeling/comment-page-1/#comment-18677</link>
		<dc:creator>LisaLisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG! I&#039;m so sadden by this news.I don&#039;t know her but I do know how much a mother loves there children cause i&#039;m a mom. Prayers to her and her family right now!
.-= LisaLisa&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://nighthelper.blogspot.com/2009/12/merry-christmas-to-all.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Merry Christmas to all!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG! I&#8217;m so sadden by this news.I don&#8217;t know her but I do know how much a mother loves there children cause i&#8217;m a mom. Prayers to her and her family right now!<br />
<span class="cluv"> LisaLisa&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://nighthelper.blogspot.com/2009/12/merry-christmas-to-all.html" rel="nofollow">Merry Christmas to all!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theohanamama.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh no, that is the most awful terrible news. I just can&#039;t imagine the heartache. I will get update from Momdot. Your poem is amazing and yes, take nothing for granted. Every second matters.
.-= Lynn&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MiddayEscapades/~3/6z24d2ky4dE/post-it-note-tuesday_15.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Post It Note Tuesday&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh no, that is the most awful terrible news. I just can&#8217;t imagine the heartache. I will get update from Momdot. Your poem is amazing and yes, take nothing for granted. Every second matters.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lynn&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MiddayEscapades/~3/6z24d2ky4dE/post-it-note-tuesday_15.html" rel="nofollow">Post It Note Tuesday</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theohanamama.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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